I want to quickly preface this post by saying I didn’t write this to fuel any further hate in a community I am no longer part of. I changed and shortened names to keep people’s privacy.
I wanted to address some of the issues that came up in the past and took me a very long time to get over. I know very well that this is going to be ripped out of context and turned into whatnot, but I still want to try and tell this story from my point of view.
^ Coming Of Age Day, 2015
Let’s start in 2012, I first did a performance at LAGC which I now no longer attend. I got to do panels, talk about the German Cosplay Championship which I’ve been participating in 2011 and open the talent show.
I got asked to come back from that year onwards, made friends through participating in UK events, even more so when I moved to the UK in 2013 to study Drama at college.
Everything was great weeby fun, I filmed covers around the city, in my backyard and started streaming on NicoNicoDouga. Then, YouTube started shutting down dance channels & I was forced to mute my dance covers by the end of the year. I saw many of my friends lose their channels during that time.
I uploaded an unrehearsed acapella cover of a K-ON song during that time and this was the first time I got a serious amount of views on a video.
I wasn’t immune to hate at that time, and I could write a book about all the bad things that went down just before I graduated. An account under the name “Jrcach” was pretending I sent messages to them and set up comments on a website pretending I was congratulating myself. I got a comment from YouTuber D. on this persons’ blog under one of my videos. His comment said something mild about the light in my room being too harsh on my nose, D.’ comment said something outright mean about my nose and me being ugly. Her friend C. chimed in.
I ultimately took my vlog down and blocked both of them. But this wouldn’t be the last time I would hear of them.
In 2014 a lot of things changed for me. I graduated from college, got scouted by a Japanese company during Hyper Japan and started selling most things I owned for moving countries. I also started a Kickstarter campaign to help me pay for the travel costs. Around the same time, I got a letter from a publisher accepting my first novel with a contract attached to it.
Excited about these changes to my life I took the title “Author” to my Twitter bio, only to get torn apart by Jrcach and their followers for “boasting” a title I apparently didn’t deserve.
^ My first novel on display
The thing about my nose was something I was aware of and I never really showed my face from a side angle until it became a common gag among people who disliked me, but this was the very beginning of that.
It’s also one of the reasons I got plastic surgery earlier this year. I obviously didn’t do it solely for that reason, there was a medical problem I had as well, but I would have probably not gone through with it if it hadn’t been for those three people.
I got to go to Japan in September as a model for a festival in Tokyo, and I was asked by the organizer to bring a friend. I spent a lot of time thinking about this, and I chose Beckii because it made sense and she hadn’t been to Japan for a while. It was a great trip, but I got some rude messages after telling my I shouldn’t leech off of her for fame.
I sold most of my clothes and it was a wild mess. I had about 8 packages shipped out a day, I was getting rid of everything I couldn’t fit into my suitcases. A girl I’ll call E. (not even close to her real name) bought a dress from two different accounts since the name for shipping (her first name) was identical I put a post-it with that name on it and when going through the list again, later on, though I already packaged it. I mailed it, then got told the dress didn’t arrive. E. didn’t want to go to her post office to ask. I really wanted to get rid of all my stuff so I offered untracked shipping. I called around until a week before HJ, when I stumbled across a thread online calling me out for “scamming” E. While I refunded her, she was asking people to help her contact Hyper Japan to get me cut from the program, contacting several events in the UK telling them the same story. She got people involved who weren’t even involved in the case. She got her refund, I messaged her. Blocked. The post office later told me the package was delivered weeks ago. Finally, I found a similar post by E on a forum starting a thread on me being a scammer.
This fake drama went on for years.
Even though E. has been called out for posting about other people and starting drama, her old fake accounts were deleted and I was un-banned from all sales pages she got in contact with, even though she apologized and took the thread down, it was later reposted and some people still believe it.
This happened about FOUR YEARS AGO.
It might have even cost me a job in the past, but it’s hard to tell for sure.
^ Celebrating New Years in 2014
I moved to Japan in December 2014, on my first day I celebrated my birthday in Tokyo. I was shopping out in Harajuku when I got stopped by a TV crew and asked for an interview. I barely spoke any Japanese at this point, but I tried anyway because it was what I had come to Japan for. I was scheduled to be on You Ha Nani Shi Nippon He…? Earlier on, but I got canceled last minute without an explanation why.
I could speculate on it being the doings of Jrcach or whoever, but I have no way to prove that.
I did, however, get a big fake callout for sharing a picture.
After my interview, I went to a café called Noa on Takeshita Street and got a window seat. A photographer had followed me into the shop and asked for pictures of me for the site. I was really dressed up (as was visible in the TV interview), and after he got his pictures he said thanks and left.
I ordered my food and noticed three girls at the window gesturing to take pictures of me. I nodded and they did. More and more girls joined them, and the shop owner realized what was going on and asked in broken English if he should shoo them away, I said it was fine and waited for it to die down. This went on for a good 15 to 20 minutes. My tea got cold and the shop owner got visibly annoyed and ultimately went outside to tell them to stop. I thanked him after.
In hindsight, I wish I would have filmed this. But apparently it wasn’t real and I was imagining this, according to Jrcach.
^ Girls outside Cafe Noa 2014
After the TV crew followed up on me at my apartment I received hand-delivered letters in my mailbox and had to move apartments because of it. Even though they had blurred out my place on TV someone had figured out where I lived and hand-delivered their love letters to me. I went to the police. Moved in with my boyfriend at that time shortly after.
I didn’t share much about my private life online, and it was very limited at that time. Especially after I left my first agency and started performing again after releasing my first single, this was really hard. I was being recognized in places like Akihabara and Harajuku and I had to constantly look 100%. It wasn’t fun, but it was what I had signed myself up for.
I wore thick hair extensions, eyelash extensions, nails, a lot of make-up, frilly clothes, etc. all day, every day. During my time in my first agency, I was working part-time in impossible conditions, standing outside every day during harsh summer and cold winter in Japan. I was sick ONCE after getting a tumor removed and am NOT ALLOWED to work for a week after. I had told everyone a month in advance I had surgery but got called in the day after the surgery regardless. Because I couldn’t go I got cut little by little from my shift plan until I ultimately had to quit because I had 2h shifts once a week I couldn’t feed myself on.
I left the agency because I wasn’t allowed to audition for music projects and wasn’t offered to join or start music with my agency either, even though I was promised just that when I signed my contract.
^ Performance in Akihabara 2015
I joined my second agency, and another person entered the scene; Another girl let’s call her O. (Also nowhere near her real name). She had befriended me on Facebook and I knew her vaguely being a friend of an Ex back in Germany. I had received an offer from her old agency a while ago and it reminded me I should try out for them after leaving. They offered me a job the following November and I got to Osaka for a photoshoot. Later I auditioned properly and got offered her old position in the group. I declined because I didn’t want any further drama with anyone. I was already attracting enough hate and people reposting things just by following my small chance of going to Japan.
One day around that time I got asked some personal question about my sexuality by O. and decided to just take her off my friend list since screenshots showing up had doubled. I kicked some other people off while I was at it and decided to never tell her I declined her spot, thinking she would think I felt like I was too good for it when actually I just didn’t want to be the next O.
There is a lot more that went down with O., and I asked her to resolve things privately with me via DM, but she chose not to. There were lots of comments on some passive-aggressive post that I should have a screenshot to avoid all the drama she started, but I was dumb enough not to. I was still trying to believe in the good in people, no matter how many messages and hurtful comments I received regarding my appearance.
I saw obvious exes of mine overexaggerating about experiences with me in forum posts, hidden behind some makeshift nickname and with malicious intent only. One comment said I tried salt-poisoning my mom. The truth behind that was a prank I played on my mom on April first when I put salt in a sugar dispenser and she had put salt in her tea and noticed immediately. Obviously, an anonymous comment had more liability than the truth and I didn’t really feel like replying to the post, though I was toying with the idea of replying to it with “Hello, (name-of-ex)”. Of course, shock value weighs more than the boring truth of a prank everyone laughed off in the end, but that’s hard to exaggerate and start discussions on “what a psychopath” I apparently am.
I ran a birthday fundraiser shortly after releasing Wagamama Love, I received one donation and found out it was due to people claiming I was cashing in on it myself instead of giving the money to charity. The two donations that were made (mine and that of a friend) got put forward through the charities website which I had run it with. The rumor persists.
^ Filming for Kazeiro Gakuen
I posted my last(ish) dance cover in 2016 on YouTube and it got recognition by TeddyLoid, the composer of the song I covered, he retweeted the cover and people were quickly onto me for “bothering people for fame” again.
I did my best at my new agency, ultimately cut off my hair and had a lot of troubles in my private life. Regardless I got into an idol group called “Baby Wolf” after being on “Kazeiro Gakuen” an idol net TV show for half a year and having guest appearances on “MinKame” on TV Asahi.
^ On MinKame, TV Asahi
I did perform my original song several times during that time period, but even though I was promised a mini album by that agency, one of the company people made bad decisions continuously and I was lucky to see a light at the end by joining the unit. I made it out of the 1000+ people who auditioned and I really had to improve my Japanese until the live audition where we were playing “Werewolf” against each other to make it to the final 13 members.
My contract with that agency ended the following winter and because my partner had doubts in our relationship, he contacted my manager and told him I would resign. I never had a say in this personally and I asked to stay in the group a little longer, but I ultimately had to give up.
We broke up later on, there was a lot of wrong things that were borderline abuse happening to me and it only got fueled by the messages and harassment he had received online from people on forums in the West.
It hit me the hardest when I realized that someone I had trusted for a very long time chose what other people thought of me over the partner he proposed to.
I entered a very dark and bad part of my life in 2017, and without a doubt, it was the worst year of my life so far. I don’t want to talk too much about it, but I was used for profit very badly and lost my remaining friends in Tokyo, and almost all work due to one person I let in my life to wreck it.
The only thing that let me hold on to during that time was making my album, and I might not have lived through it if it wasn’t for making that record. I know this sounds dark and over-the-top, but it’s true.
During that time D. had moved to Japan and I first noticed when I found myself uninvited to a party I had an invitation to for months and looking forward to. I found myself unfollowed by friends and people in the community who had recently posted pictures or videos with her, and I fell under the suspicion that she had something to do with that.
While I had been a regular at beauty and fashion schools to model for students, I found myself with fewer and fewer offers, I was getting blocked or unfollowed by more and more people and grew paranoid to even go outside. I don’t want to give this too much of a timeframe since I don’t want this to turn into a witch hunt she-said-she-said scenario.
But I lost most connections and was afraid to go to events by myself, in fear of more “leeching off of people for fame” type of messages. I also lost some of my long-term friends I’ve had since UK times due to the same thing. Most of them still don’t talk to me.
D. had won. And I still see her posting with newer people I just started following in the Tokyo area, then either find myself unfollowed or the newer people leaving the country. I would never assume that D. has something to do with their career dreams crashing, Japan is a hard place to stay at, but I do wonder if she is happy where she is now.
^ Performance in Shinjuku 2017
I ultimately left Japan in December, shortly after the release and moved back in with my parents. I had left injured and with barely anything on me. I had given my bird Q back to the bird café I had adopted him from because I didn’t want to be so selfish to take him with me and put him through months of quarantine just so I could “keep” him. I was able to rescue another bird of the same species that same winter from a breeder who was shutting down and wanted to “get rid” of all his remaining birds. Thus Ollie entered my life.
Around the same time, I felt at my lowest and had to force myself to go through forums and hate sites to make sure nothing too personal was being twisted in regards to me leaving. Of course, there was, and I am still speculating on who and how and why certain rumors started, but I don’t feel like they matter to me now.
^ Paperplanes Tour 2017
If you were expecting some vile drama or people breaking my kneecaps backstage you were probably disappointed by my story, but this is one of the reasons I have left this corner of the internet and don’t have the intention to ever return.
I recently got asked whether I want to continue doing dance covers after I have fully healed from my recent foot surgery, the answer, in short, is: no.
Even though I do still enjoy idol music and support the groups I like in Japan and the West, I don’t feel like going back through these chapters of my life and putting myself on stage when I always have to think about the negative side of things. I do still dance, but I don’t want to get hurt by doing what I enjoy anymore. The rumors will always outweigh the truth in my eyes and reclaiming my private life again is something I am very proud of and really enjoy at this point.
YouTube and the recent Copyright Directive already made it pretty much impossible to use music with my dances that aren’t my own and stepping away from making cutesie music for the sake of being honest with myself in my lyrics pretty much locked me out of participating in this subculture for good.
I do still enjoy J-fashion, though I could probably write another essay about all the bad stuff that came out of me wearing Lolita Fashion on a daily basis for years.
I wasn’t really happy during a big part of my life in Japan and I do feel like it has to do with the way a lot of people in the West idolize the culture and what they think Japan is. There is a pink-goggle-mentality that I don’t see fading in this part of the internet, where it’s okay to absolutely wreck the self-esteem of young girls just for participating in it. I saw it happen with my own eyes and was young and naïve to think people were who they were in their videos and posts.
A lot of the people I followed throughout the years grew out of this and moved on with their lives, but those who stuck around or gained a large amount of following might do anything they can to defend their position. And those who have failed and feel inferior to the ones going can either fade away or try and put down whoever they can to feel accomplished.
I will always be there for everyone looking for concrete advice for moving to Japan or following a career in entertainment as well as I can. If you want to start dancing or singing or dressing up in J-fashion, don’t let my story stop you from doing so, but take it as a warning to grow a thick skin if you chose to go down that road.
As far as I know, a lot of the hate blogs including Jrcach are no longer active now, but if someone gets truly offended by what you do or how you find your way, they will keep coming. But you are not alone. There will always be people on your side and even when you feel like you are completely alone, try reaching out.
I am glad my friends reached out to me after I came back, and listened to my story.
Just be careful who you surround yourself with.
A New Journey
Welcome back to everyone after this rather long break!
I have been up to a lot lately, and this is the first look into some new content I can give.
As you might have already seen on my main channel lately, I have been getting back into vlogging this fall and decided to take my camera with me to a place I haven't visited in four years: London!
After I got scouted by a Japanese agency back in 2014 I left the UK, where I was living at that time, to pursue my dreams in Tokyo. The rest of the story you probably already know, since you found my website which I started shortly after.
If you don't know what I'm talking about you might want to check out my older posts (listed on the right side) or my Vlog Channel, where I took my camera along to my jobs as a model, idol and cosplayer in Japan as well as some private trips.
HeaLth Struggles & LIFE
As I mentioned briefly I have been under the knife after filming my trip to London and have not had the time to film anything since then. After coming back from Japan (I should really make a video about this at some point) I decided it would be best for me to go to university, as I was originally planning on doing before getting scouted.
I know to many of you following me this might seem rather uninteresting, but I am really starting to enjoy a regular "boring" life for now.
Even though it does hinder me time-wise in producing content I was always worried that I might not have enough time to learn the things I want to learn and work on a long-term plan.
I will definitely talk about my plans for the future at some point, but I am really happy that I have somewhat restored my privacy again after several years of having every corner of my life laid out to the public. I could have gone without it, hidden my identity completely and used a different artist name all along, however I chose to not live in constant fear of having scandals and shocking reveals and just made everything public myself. The plan behind this was to just not give anyone future (monetary) power over me and my career should things blow up one day.
Obviously they didn't, but it was a security I liked to have.
For the moment however I do enjoy being someone completely else, and even though my close friends know about my past endeavours in the entertainment industry, I keep most of it to myself.
Since last summer I have been up to a lot, including plans for a new record and a new line of handmade wearable merchandise. If you are not following my Patreon page, you might want to check it out to preorder colours and sizes.
I have also been working on skills I had a brief introduction to while living in Japan, but that have become less important in my life now. Even though I don't get to exercise these as much anymore I felt like it was important to not give up and let everything I had learned over the past years rot away.
I will definitely show you what I mean by that in the near future.
Premieres & Streams
As you might have seen on my YouTube channel I have lately been using the new premiere feature for vlog releases and want to keep that up during longer videos. I will still upload them early for Patrons, but this way I get to share this first watch with everyone following and have a time frame to chat to everyone watching live. If you want to talk to me in real time, these premieres are a great chance to do so!
I have also been streaming somewhat frequently on Twitch this year, mostly playing video games and talking about life in general while sharing what I cooked that day in a Mukbang. I never thought I really belonged into that corner of the internet, especially since I am really not great at fast-paced video games, but the social aspect of spending time with new people made it really enjoyable for me!
I generally stream Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, though I occasionally got time on the weekend!
I take donations via Tip Jar, Ko-Fi & Patreon for now, which really helps support the merchandise project and funding my new record. I was saving up quite a bit for it, but I had complications during my recent surgery and had to get stitched back up on my couch by paramedics, fund my own medication etc. which has left a hole in my funds.
I want to take this chance to thank everyone who is subscribed to my Patreon and donated to me via Ko-Fi & Tip Jar, I really wouldn't be able to spend time being Himezawa if it wasn't for you guys! Thank You!
I have been able to make new Patreon photosets every other month and after I am fully healed I will be doing one a month again, featuring a new cosplay. I did get to organize myself a photographer for HD sets as well, so I don't have to rely on the usual self-timer ones I took the past months. I will also be upgrading some of the rewards on my Patreon page starting January, that include regular T-Shirts & Poster prints, special designs by guest artists and the long awaited Fate Cosplay Photobook by February! The new photobook will be twice as thick as the past ones, so if you are up for that, now is your chance to sign up and support them being printed!
Depending on how many donations I will get, I'll be able to distribute them down to any tier on my page, so your support really helps everyone on the subscription list!
Until next time!
It's Phat Time to get started!
Today I wanted to share another recipe that is just the epiphany of lazy student recipes for when you can't afford to go to the Thai Place to buy take out!
This recipe is 100% vegan, you can add meat (or sea food) if you like!
Plain rice (100g)
2 Bellpeppers (diced)
1 Zucchini (half slices)
Tine piece of Ginger (optional)
Spices: Chili powder, salt, pepper, garlic powder
Start cooking your rice if you own a rice cooker this will be the easiest part.
Boil cauliflower and broccoli pieces in another pot for about 10 minutes, drain them from the water.
Put oil in a fry/pan hybrid (or a regular fry pan that has a lid) and add all vegetable slices and dices.
Fry them for a good 10-15 minutes on low heat while preparing the sauce.
The sauce consists of 1 tablespoon of soy sauce, 1 tablespoon of olive oil, lemon juice, chili powder, salt, pepper, garlic powder & ground up ginger. Mix together and add to the vegetables, then add about 200 ml of water, stir and put the lid on the pan.
Let the vegetables soak up the sauce and stir a few times until most of the sauce has been absorbed, if needed add a little more oil to the mix and stir fry on low heat.
You can spice the finished vegetables with anything included in the sauce, if you want.
If you bought a whole cauliflower & broccoli, cut them apart and freeze them (don't boil them) for later use.
And that's it!
I hope you enjoyed this little recipe. I want to share more of my favourites in the future, so if you decide to cook any of them, let me know on Twitter @himezawa!
Today I wanted to share a recipe for one of my favourite foods, a mexican style sweet and spicy bean soup. Doesn't sound that exciting? - Well, keep on reading!
This recipe can be easily adjusted for vegetarian and vegan foodies!
I put alternative ingredients in brackets, so it's easier to filter out what doesn't fit your diet.
1 small onion, diced
2 potatos, diced
400g pork, diced (400g pressed tofu, diced)
300ml chili sauce
1 bellpepper, diced
500g green beans
250ml cream (200ml coconut milk)
Salt, pepper, paprika, chili powder, soup cube
Fry onion dices with oil in a pot until they become clear, then add pork dices (or tofu dices) and cook them fully. Turn off the plate and add water, soup powder/cube, vegetables and chili sauce. Boil for a few seconds and then let it cook with the lid on for half an hour.
Finally, add the cream (or coconut milk) and spices, stir and let it boil for a minute again.
If you want to freeze a portion of it for later, do so before adding the cream!
Spices go in last.
You can add some parsley and enjoy it with bread or a baguette, alternatively it makes a great burrito side dish!
If you enjoyed this recipe, you can tweet me your creations on Twitter @himezawa and I will check them out!
I decided to share more of my life on my blog recently, and one of those is being cheap and alter clothes I own or thrift.
A colour I absolutely loved the past months was mustard yellow. I blind-bought a dress at Forever21 and couldn't get yself to wear it, because it was just too tight and left me looking like a mustard-covered sausage.
I decided to cut it apart and turn it into a crop top and pencil skirt for summer, which - let's be honest - was the only way to give this dress at least a short lifespan. Sausage dress was not going to be donated to a thrift store and turn another person into a pressed piece of meat!
The finished piece!
There was no need to add an elastic to the skirt since it was tight enough around the waist anyway.
Even after summer I can imagine wearing the skirt with an oversized black sweater and tights.
That's all for the dress alteration, I will try and share more of my (more complicated and post-worthy) sewing adventures, so stay tuned!
姫沢 • ヒメザワ